There is a power in words. In the Jewish tradition, the world is spoken into being. An advantage in writing words down is that it is easier to examine them.
I believe we all have a fundamental Right to Heal, and we need to encourage all of our healing and growth. Writing can be a powerful self-help tool that is easily accessible and very low-cost in materials.
Writing to Heal can include many aspects. Expressing emotions frees up energy that was used to hold them in and can reduce stress. We can go a step beyond that to reframe situations and gain perspective. We can choose to examine our self-talk and consciously shift it. We can also affect outcomes in our lives by writing the script of our lives as healing adventures, a form of the hero’s journey. Part of that can include preparing to interact with others orally or in writing, from personal to business communication to writing for publication.
We are starting by focusing on increasing resiliency. We all encounter setbacks, from the major ones such as losing a job, ending a relationship, or experiencing the death of a loved one, to the more everyday variety such as missing out on a work opportunity, having a car break down, or being turned down when we ask someone out. We can’t avoid these discouraging things to save ourselves from stress; instead we need to learn how to more readily bounce back from disappointments, to learn whatever we may need to learn from them, and then to persevere and take new actions.
The first writing exercise is one to remind ourselves of the abilities we’ve already developed to bounce back. I suggest giving yourself 10 minutes to do it; you can go longer if you like.
The second exercise is designed to help in increasing resiliency. Plan to give yourself 10 minutes for that one as well.
In workshops, people have appreciated the opportunity to share some of their writing. Feel free to post your work on the blog, and remember the focus here is writing for healing, so don’t be concerned about your writing skill level.
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